The Beginners Guide to Hooking Up

Tons of people are taking part in hooking up online nowadays, and with the raise of the internet, it may be more important than ever to do so. But what exactly is a hookup, and how would you go about in doing it? Well, this guide should be able to tell you all that you need to know about it.

This is a bit of a tricky question to answer, as there really is no consensus on what the term actually means. For instance, in studies one on the subject, half of students claimed that a hookup was about sex, an half said that it did not have to include it.

However, for the sake of brevity, I will use the term “hook-up” to include the definition as “entailing certain sex acts between two people who are not dating or in a serious relationship and do not expect anything further.” Or, in other words, Netflix and Chill.

Why you should hook up with someone?

Finding someone to have sex with might seem like a lot of work for some people. They might not fully see the point of it, or they may even think that it is immoral. However, having sex can help with a lot of things if done right.

Like I said before, we live in a society that is becoming more and more internet-based. As a result, a lot of people do not feel intimate contact as often as they would like. Lack of intimate touch can make you feel lonely, and can increase negative emotions, irritability, depression, and can lower your quality of life. You can become less productive as well, which is a pain.

It can also give you an excuse to get out of the house more often or to break the monotony that you might be feeling in your life. Sex is awesome, and so is finding new people to talk to and potentially hang out within the long run. The possibilities are endless.

Where are the best places to hookup with someone?

When it comes to setting up a hooking up, there is rarely a place that you can’t do it at. However, some places are obviously better than others. But it does depend on the type of person you are looking for, as well as age, personality, etc.

If you are looking for a younger woman, or someone who might be more energetic and eccentric, it might be best to hit the club. But if you are looking for a MILF or someone older, you can probably find them at the park or grocery stores. The averages place to find people have to be at the mall, at social gatherings, or at the bar. Any place where you are destined to meet people are places where you can potentially hook up.

How to prepare for your first Hookup

When it comes to preparing for your first hookup, the first thing that you have to do is calm down. I know that having sex, or even just meeting some guy you may barely know is nerve-wracking. So take some deep breaths, as being a wreck will in no way help you.

Make sure that you bathe. Sadly, not everyone considers this before they go out. Now you do not have to make everything perfect. You don’t have to shave your legs and wear a suit. All you really need to do is take a show, brush your teeth and hair, and make sure that you do not look like a dumpster fire.

Also, regardless of what sex you are, make sure that you bring protection. Even if you are a woman, bringing a condom with you helps protect you on the chance that the guy claims that he did not bring one. Also, you are hooking up with someone, not starting a family with them. So make sure that you are well protected so you don’t have to worry about a third party in a few months.